Sujita Adhikari

Reflections

Finding Home

Thirteen years ago, I left home with a red duffle bag in my hand. Even then, my heart knew—things would never be the same. I wouldn’t return home the way I used to, after school each day, after long vacations at my grandparents’ house, or after those educational

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What If… It All Works Out?

I bet one of the most replayed questions in almost everyone’s mind is: What if? We’ve all had our fair share of those haunting thoughts — What if I had done that? What if I had taken that route? What if I had made a different decision? These reflections

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Gratitude in the Little Things

Recently, I reconnected with an old friend. We caught up on so many things—life, work, goals—and like most people our age, the conversation naturally drifted toward grown-up stuff: buying a house, upgrading our lifestyle, and everything in between. We talked for about an hour or so, and somewhere

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Muggle Musings: Life Lessons from the Wizarding World

I finally started listening to the Harry Potter books this year! I’ve always been a reader, but for some reason, I never picked them up as a kid or even in college. But better late than never, right? I’ve never been this hooked on a book series before—

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Why Everyone Should Visit Disney World at Least Once

Before I begin, I want to acknowledge that Disney World might not be an affordable or accessible vacation for everyone. However, if you have the time and resources, I highly recommend visiting. If not, there are plenty of other vacations that can provide equally, if not more, enriching life experiences.

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My Wobbly Journey with New Glasses and Life’s Little Reminders

Finally, I got my eyes checked! Yay!! You might say, "So, what’s the big deal about it?" Well, for those of us who keep procrastinating and pushing things off our to-do lists, this feels like a milestone. I’m actually proud of myself for getting it done.

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Stable or Stagnant?

Last month, two of my grad school friends tied the knot! It was a small, beautiful ceremony with their closest family and friends, and honestly, the perfect excuse for the rest of us to have a mini grad school reunion. You know how it goes—those typical conversations at social

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Are Women Really Each Other’s Enemies?

Are Women Really Each Other’s Enemies? My Story Says Otherwise! How many times have you heard the saying that women are each other’s worst enemies? That we’re always tearing each other down? We’ve all come across this narrative, whether in mainstream media or casual conversations. While

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How Much Do We Really Know About the People Around Us?

How much do we really know about the people around us? Probably not as much as we think. But that doesn’t stop us from making all kinds of assumptions about others, does it? We see someone dancing on social media and instantly assume they’re happy. We spot someone

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For Mamta and Every Woman: A Stand Against Domestic Violence

For the past three weeks, I haven’t been able to stop thinking about the Mamta Kafle Bhatt case. I feel a deep sense of anger, frustration, disappointment, and sadness. These emotions are so strong that it’s hard to focus on anything else. I know it’s not healthy

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20 Lessons from My 20s: Part II

Hey everyone, I hope you had a chance to read Part I of my blog post on 20 Lessons from My 20s. If not, no worries—you can check it out HERE! I’m excited to share Part II with you, so let’s dive right in: 1.  Be mindful

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20 Lessons from my 20s: Part I

Ever since I finished reading The Defining Decade: Why Your 20s Matter and How to Make the Most of Them Now, I've been reflecting deeply on my own 20s. This decade has been a whirlwind of adventures, significant life changes, happiness, disappointments, loneliness, and achievements. Regardless of the

Book Reviews

The Power of Now

Genre: Self-Help Author: Eckhart Tolle The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle is the kind of book I want to own a physical copy of and revisit every few years. I listened to the audiobook version, and to be completely honest, I don’t think I fully comprehended all the

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Mental Health. Tragedy. Rant

The kid was crying for help, but nobody understood. Maybe it wasn't the usual way of asking for help. His thoughts were irrational, he had lost his comprehension, and he couldn't gather his thoughts. He kept running away, yet he tried reaching out. He may not

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The Universe’s Conspiracy: My Award-Winning Experience

Have you ever had one of those moments when everything aligns perfectly, almost as if the universe is conspiring in your favor? Well, last week, I experienced something just like that. It felt as if the universe was whispering in my ear, guiding me without my even realizing it. Last

Book Reviews

The Defining Decade: Why Your 20s Matter and How to Make the Most of Them Now

Genre: Non-fiction, Psychology, Self-Help Author: Meg Jay As someone about to graduate from my 20s, I picked up "The Defining Decade" by Meg Jay out of curiosity. They say your 20s shape the rest of your personal and professional life, so I wanted to reflect on how I

Book Reviews

The Silent Patient

Author: Alex Michaelides Genre: Psychological Thriller If you're looking for a book that will blow your mind with twists, pick up "The Silent Patient" now! It's a page-turner that keeps you on edge the whole time, and by the end, you might find your

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Bad Blood

Genre: Biography Author: John Carreyrou Imagine investing millions of dollars into a “revolutionary company”, only to discover it was built on lies. Welcome to the world of 'Bad Blood,' a book that feels like watching a thriller unfold in real time with unexpected twists and jaw-dropping revelations! Before

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How Do You Know If He/She/They Are the One for You?

When it comes to our romantic lives, the question "How do you know if he/she/they are the one for you?" often pops up in conversations. Whether you're chatting with a friend, watching movies or interviews, or listening to podcasts, this question seems everywhere. Naturally,

Book Reviews

Half of a Yellow Sun

Genre: Historical Fiction Author: Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie Have you ever re-read a book and felt like you were uncovering a hidden treasure all over again? That’s the magic I experienced with Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie’s Half of a Yellow Sun. I finished reading it just yesterday. Although it wasn&

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The Midnight Library

Genre: Fiction Author: Matt Haig "That sounds like a movie story. Is there a movie about this book?" That's what my husband said when I summarized this book to him. If you're looking for good fiction to read, I definitely recommend The Midnight Library

Book Reviews

When The Body Says No

Genre: Self-Help Author: Gabor Maté As promised, let’s start with some major key takeaways for this book review, and then we'll dive into the nitty-gritty of the book later on: 1. This book is a reminder for everyone to do a "self-emotional inventory" regularly to

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On book club, friendships, courage, curiosity, and collaborative learning…

Starting this week, I will summarize the key points of my blog post at the beginning of each writing. If you don't want to read the entire post, I want you to walk away with at least the following points: 1. Let courage push you forward—you'

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Total Solar Eclipse, Lunch Party, and Cosmic Snacks…

If you were in any part of the world where the path of the solar eclipse totality touched in the last week, you know the hype! At our division meeting, we had a lively discussion on- how far would you travel to witness something truly spectacular? A couple hundred, or

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Finding "Glimmers" in Everyday Life

What brings you joy in life? Is it the aroma of a freshly brewed cup of coffee? The melody of a song that reminds you of a specific memory? Perhaps it’s the first ray of sunlight hitting your face in the morning, or the cheerful chirping of birds outside