Reflections

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Is Everything Supposed to Be Optimized?

We live in a fast-paced world, and everything seems to be moving at a really fast pace. I don’t know if people feel that elsewhere, but life in the US feels this way to me. There is so much happening on a daily basis- so much technological advancement, so

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Didn’t Find the Perfect Job, but Found the Perfect Rug

Remember the times you couldn’t wait to be an adult? And then adulthood arrived, and suddenly you were buried under endless “adulting” tasks. Or remember how badly you wanted to be done with school, only to graduate, enter the workforce, and realize that now the grind stretches on for

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A Story of Meant to Be

Five years ago, right after my graduation, I had to find a temporary place to stay until my job situation was finalized. Luckily, I found a post in a Facebook group and moved in with some wonderful roommates in the same apartment complex. It was a perfect arrangement. I had

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Loss, Grief, and Gratitude

That Thursday morning, I woke up in my hotel room in Chicago. I was there for a conference. At 3 p.m., I had a presentation that my team and I had been invited to give. I had showered and was doing my makeup while running through a few practice

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Finding Home

Thirteen years ago, I left home with a red duffle bag in my hand. Even then, my heart knew—things would never be the same. I wouldn’t return home the way I used to, after school each day, after long vacations at my grandparents’ house, or after those educational

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What If… It All Works Out?

I bet one of the most replayed questions in almost everyone’s mind is: What if? We’ve all had our fair share of those haunting thoughts — What if I had done that? What if I had taken that route? What if I had made a different decision? These reflections

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Gratitude in the Little Things

Recently, I reconnected with an old friend. We caught up on so many things—life, work, goals—and like most people our age, the conversation naturally drifted toward grown-up stuff: buying a house, upgrading our lifestyle, and everything in between. We talked for about an hour or so, and somewhere

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Muggle Musings: Life Lessons from the Wizarding World

I finally started listening to the Harry Potter books this year! I’ve always been a reader, but for some reason, I never picked them up as a kid or even in college. But better late than never, right? I’ve never been this hooked on a book series before—

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Why Everyone Should Visit Disney World at Least Once

Before I begin, I want to acknowledge that Disney World might not be an affordable or accessible vacation for everyone. However, if you have the time and resources, I highly recommend visiting. If not, there are plenty of other vacations that can provide equally, if not more, enriching life experiences.

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My Wobbly Journey with New Glasses and Life’s Little Reminders

Finally, I got my eyes checked! Yay!! You might say, "So, what’s the big deal about it?" Well, for those of us who keep procrastinating and pushing things off our to-do lists, this feels like a milestone. I’m actually proud of myself for getting it done.

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Stable or Stagnant?

Last month, two of my grad school friends tied the knot! It was a small, beautiful ceremony with their closest family and friends, and honestly, the perfect excuse for the rest of us to have a mini grad school reunion. You know how it goes—those typical conversations at social

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Are Women Really Each Other’s Enemies?

Are Women Really Each Other’s Enemies? My Story Says Otherwise! How many times have you heard the saying that women are each other’s worst enemies? That we’re always tearing each other down? We’ve all come across this narrative, whether in mainstream media or casual conversations. While

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How Much Do We Really Know About the People Around Us?

How much do we really know about the people around us? Probably not as much as we think. But that doesn’t stop us from making all kinds of assumptions about others, does it? We see someone dancing on social media and instantly assume they’re happy. We spot someone

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For Mamta and Every Woman: A Stand Against Domestic Violence

For the past three weeks, I haven’t been able to stop thinking about the Mamta Kafle Bhatt case. I feel a deep sense of anger, frustration, disappointment, and sadness. These emotions are so strong that it’s hard to focus on anything else. I know it’s not healthy

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20 Lessons from My 20s: Part II

Hey everyone, I hope you had a chance to read Part I of my blog post on 20 Lessons from My 20s. If not, no worries—you can check it out HERE! I’m excited to share Part II with you, so let’s dive right in: 1.  Be mindful

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20 Lessons from my 20s: Part I

Ever since I finished reading The Defining Decade: Why Your 20s Matter and How to Make the Most of Them Now, I've been reflecting deeply on my own 20s. This decade has been a whirlwind of adventures, significant life changes, happiness, disappointments, loneliness, and achievements. Regardless of the

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Mental Health. Tragedy. Rant

The kid was crying for help, but nobody understood. Maybe it wasn't the usual way of asking for help. His thoughts were irrational, he had lost his comprehension, and he couldn't gather his thoughts. He kept running away, yet he tried reaching out. He may not

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The Universe’s Conspiracy: My Award-Winning Experience

Have you ever had one of those moments when everything aligns perfectly, almost as if the universe is conspiring in your favor? Well, last week, I experienced something just like that. It felt as if the universe was whispering in my ear, guiding me without my even realizing it. Last

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How Do You Know If He/She/They Are the One for You?

When it comes to our romantic lives, the question "How do you know if he/she/they are the one for you?" often pops up in conversations. Whether you're chatting with a friend, watching movies or interviews, or listening to podcasts, this question seems everywhere. Naturally,

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On book club, friendships, courage, curiosity, and collaborative learning…

Starting this week, I will summarize the key points of my blog post at the beginning of each writing. If you don't want to read the entire post, I want you to walk away with at least the following points: 1. Let courage push you forward—you'

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Total Solar Eclipse, Lunch Party, and Cosmic Snacks…

If you were in any part of the world where the path of the solar eclipse totality touched in the last week, you know the hype! At our division meeting, we had a lively discussion on- how far would you travel to witness something truly spectacular? A couple hundred, or

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Finding "Glimmers" in Everyday Life

What brings you joy in life? Is it the aroma of a freshly brewed cup of coffee? The melody of a song that reminds you of a specific memory? Perhaps it’s the first ray of sunlight hitting your face in the morning, or the cheerful chirping of birds outside

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An Open Letter to My Cousin Who Moved Abroad

This is an open letter to my cousin who just left Nepal to move to her dream country for her higher education. It has been a couple of weeks since her big move. So, here are my two cents for her.   Dear N, Congratulations! I know it has been your

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Taking One Confident Step at a Time

The other day, my husband and I were driving somewhere, and we were having conversations with each other. I was appreciating him for all the skills he has, how good he is at certain things, and how confident I was in his ability to excel in whatever he does. Then

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Stepping Out of Comfort Zone: Embracing Growth And Personal Development

This week, I did something out of my comfort zone! Approaching someone and striking up a conversation isn't usually my thing. I often find it easier to stick with familiar faces in a crowd and stay within my bubble. However, this week, I took the initiative to approach